Tag: Parenting

Our Magical Visitors and Their Fonts

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When our first-born was a baby, I didn’t know how I felt about having Santa visit our house.  I discussed it with my husband and close friends. I read articles about it. I hemmed and hawed it.  Fortunately, those babies give us time to make such decisions.  One of the best pieces of advice I got was that if we did choose to have Santa and the Easter Bunny in our home, we should make a game of it in other times and “play” that we are these characters.

By the time our girl was nearing two, I was giddy with excitement to see her reaction to a visit from St. Nicholas.  Apparently, the decision had been made.  She took on the “play” element with zero prompting from us.  On holidays, we are each instructed by our little director when it’s our turn to “be” Santa, or whomever has recently stopped by.

Now, we have no less than 7! magical visitors.  (How did that happen?)  And while I’d made all sorts of promises to keep it simple and not add to the deception, there are definitely ways I have lapsed on this.  Everyone has their own forms of this, of course; I mean if you’re going to do it, you might as well have some fun, right?  While we don’t do any footprints or costumes or ringing bells, we definitely have gone farther than I had planned.  I had hoped to reflect any questions about these visitors back to our daughter.  “How do YOU think Santa gets down the chimney?”  etc.  And while I usually keep to this rule in person, everything changes when the questions are asked in a direct letter; those magical visitors can’t help but answer.  So now, each visitor has quite an elaborate backstory, which is a combination of our daughter’s long list of questions and her mama’s excitement.  And, as our girl is beginning her reading and writing journey, I couldn’t just have these visitors write their letters in recognizable print.  So, while I’d love these letters to be handwritten, they are way too lengthy to do so in special writing.  Thus was born our Magical Visitors’ Fonts.

I am fortunate to have an incredible stock of scrapbook paper, and after researching some fonts, here’s what we’ve got:

Our leprechauns and their font (They actually do handwrite this font with green whiteboard marker on mirrors and tubs.)

Our Easter Bunny and her font

Our Switch Witch and her font

Our St. Nicholas and his font

Our Christmas Kindness Elf and her font

Our Santa and his font

Our Tooth Fairy and her font (She originally had a different font, but she writes so very tiny that it had to be changed.)

I hope some of these links can help another mama or dada who might be in a pickle trying to figure some of this out!

 

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Before We Say “Goodnight”

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Before We Say “Goodnight” by Hank Frazee

Father of three kids and insurance agent by day, Mr. Frazee tells a real-life bedtime story to his kids every night, which he has calculated to be over 8,000 stories. This entertaining, quick read is a convincing argument for the importance of sharing life stories with your kids. While many families, including the author’s, believe in the importance of reading books to children before bed, Hank suggests there is also much to be gained by including a story about your own life. It’s a great opportunity not only for your children to snuggle close with you and learn from the way you structure your stories, but also to help them learn about their family’s history and perhaps be comforted in knowing that you faced similar challenges, embarrassments, and joys.


I have to say that when I first read through this book, I was immediately on board with the idea but thought that I couldn’t possibly have enough stories to share. I racked my brain only to come up with memories of accidents and humiliating moments from my life, not the kind of thing to lull my young daughter to sleep. But Mr. Frazee offers tips, ideas, and a few pages of story prompters to help the reader embark on this journey. It took a little bit of reflection for me. But, notebook in hand, (which Hank suggests you won’t necessarily need), I slowly began jotting down ideas of real-life stories I could tell. And once I began this process, I really started to “get it.” The stories didn’t have to be long or even highly entertaining. They could be stories from my own experiences or other family members’. I now have pages of ideas. Mr. Frazee’s book really has been an inspiration.

Now, years after my first reading of his book, I realize just how much this book has changed the way I parent.  Storytelling plays a central role in our each and every day, whether they be stories from our long-distant past, stories from our day, or stories from books or movies my kids have yet to experience.  With more and more practice, storytelling has become second nature for me, and has been a huge part of bonding with my kids.  Thank you, Mr. Frazee

Darth Vader and Son

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Darth Vader and Son (2012)  by Jeffrey Brown

This is a book of one-page comics that show what life would be like for Darth Vader if he were spending time with a four-year old Luke Skywalker.  I don’t know Star Wars that well and had to have some of these cartoons explained to me further, but most of these stand on their own, even for those of us with limited Star Wars knowledge.  They will be especially funny to parents or to anyone who spends time with young children.

I happened to first read this book soon after giving birth to our second child, a time when my emotions were a big, dramatic jumble of very high highs and very low lows.  And so, as I read these over and over to our own four-year old, while nursing her brother, I laughed out loud uncontrollably… as in… I CouLD. NOT. stop. laughing.  I’m pretty sure this book is funny even to a person of average emotional range, but these comics hold a special place in my heart for all the joy they brought me in those early, raw days and weeks after giving birth.

 

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A Few of My Favorite Dolls

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I believe a doll is a very special thing.  “Dollar dolls” or dolls from generic corporate America don’t necessarily interest me.  Neither do ridiculously expensive dolls, be they American Girls or Waldorf treasures.  I’m kind of in between these two extremes, I guess.  My goal is always to find a doll I love from a place I love too.

My kids have way too many dolls.  Life has exploded with them, and while I used to be able to exert some power over what stayed and what was given a new home, my daughter is older now and is head-over-heels for any stuffed animal or doll that comes our way.  I thought about trying to limit our dolls and animals at one point, but watching our girl love and care for each one is really heart-warming.  There are other areas I can put my foot down.

I caved and found a huge toy chest for all the dolls, although they are usually rotating through various areas of our home.  Our daughter is not particular on the doll issue at all; she treats each one as if it was the most special doll in the world.  I love that.  But I’ve found that I’ve acquired a list of my favorites that we either own or I wish we did…

Bonnika doll She really is a doll. I just might love Bonnika more than our daughter does, and I love the PattyCake Doll company.

Fay and Fox doll from Etsy This Etsy store is based out of Greece, making the shipping a little steep. But, oh, how I am loving looking at the precious items in this store!

A Button and a Stitch dolls from Etsy Don’t own any of these…yet.  I am in love with all of them. How would I choose?

Under the Nile Adam doll Santa brought this as the gift to our son last year. I love this sweet little boy doll.

Lizzie fairy doll by JellyCat Grandma bought this for our girl at one of our favorite local gift shops. Lizzie is one of my favorite dolls we have. With her crazy blonde hair and her fairy ballet outfit, she reminds me a lot of another girl I know…

Peter from Snowy Day doll You can find Peter a lot of places, but I’m always willing to suck it up and pay the extra for an independent, awesome company. I love Snowy Day and fell in love with this doll as soon as I saw him.

And, while I usually prefer cloth dolls, the Corolle baby appeared one Christmas from Santa (who had found her at an independent toy shop), and I LOVE holding this doll.  It’s like holding a tiny baby.