The Giving Tree

Back in 2015, I somehow volunteered to make a tree project on behalf of the local library for a community tree decorating display/event.  Anyway, being the tree hugger that I am, I made it into an upcycled project and wrote a little statement about trees, which I included with the project.  As we’re in yet another season of cutting down trees, I thought I’d share this little project here.

  

I used Shel Silverstein’s “The Giving Tree” as a base for this tree project as a reminder of all the gifts trees provide for us. 

During the holidays, trees (no matter what their form) can be a place to gather with friends and family, a place to share gifts, and a part of the holiday decor and magic.

Trees provide so much more though.  They are the source of our furniture, our paper, our homes, our food packaging, our books, and on and on. 

I think it would serve us, and our planet, to remain conscious of these gifts, appreciate them, and try our best to make good uses of them.

I love that I was able to build this scene by reusing old books that were no longer in a condition to keep as reading books.  Here, they have new life and are able to give to us once again. 

The supports I used to prop the books are old wooden game pieces from discarded Scrabble and Jenga games. 

And with wooden skewers being used as supports for the book trees, this entire project truly is a gift from trees.

I remain a “tree hugger” at heart.  And so, despite my appreciation for all the gifts I know trees provide for me in my life,

I still believe a tree’s best gifts are given when it is left in the ground to grow–providing oxygen, fruit, shade, animals’ homes, and most of all, breathtaking beauty.

Hundredth Monkey Effect

While the theory of the “hundredth monkey” is seen as something not based on actual evidence, I have to be honest, that once I heard the story as a child, it really stuck. And so while the phenomenon has been discredited, I’m still going to talk about it here. I guess I’m someone who believes in things bigger than ourselves or facts sometimes. I believe in the power of our thoughts in a big way.  And, so part of me holds some faith in this idea.

So, here’s the study and theory to my understanding, if you haven’t heard it: 

A team of scientists in the 1950s studied a group of monkeys on an island in Japan. The team would drop sweet potatoes or wheat and observe the monkeys’ behaviors. One monkey started washing the sweet potatoes in water before eating them. A few years later, many of the monkeys were doing this. Some monkeys who were older did not adopt the behavior. But through teaching and observation, the washing food behavior spread throughout most of the monkeys on the island. The female monkey who had invented this technique continued to come up with other innovations too, which were also adopted. 

Then, in the 1960s, a separate source mentioned that similar food washing behaviors were noticed in monkeys in other parts of the world. This was never explained. Some thought monkeys from the original island might have swum to other locations and spread the behavior, but the group of monkeys that were originally studied were not swimmers.

So, what some people did with these two separate bits of information is create this hundredth monkey myth. The theory being that once a certain number of animals, not necessarily 100, but a critical number is reached in learning a new behavior, then that behavior is spontaneously picked up by animals in other locations as well without actually being taught or observing this behavior. It’s as if the idea catches on all on its own and starts spreading. 

And while this is seen simply as a “hypothetical phenomenon” and a story told by New Age folk or, you know, folks writing Reducing and Reusing posts, I still like to think about it from time to time when I’m working on making change. I say to myself, “Maybe you are the hundredth monkey!”  Maybe once I start (or started) bringing reusable bags to the store or using rechargeable batteries or bringing my own takeout containers and so on, maybe I’m the last one who has to do so somewhat consciously, and then the idea will just spread throughout the world and it will just become second nature for everyone.

Now even if you think the whole 100th monkey thing is a bunch of baloney, because, like I said, that’s not at all what the study was getting at, even just looking at the original study itself can be inspirational. One monkey discovered a new behavior and she probably shared it with her kids or those around her observed it. And the idea spread in that area through teaching and observation. There, of course, were some who were too old or stubborn to change their ways, but for the most part, this one monkey’s new way of thinking effected a majority of the population. And, who knows? Maybe somehow, her innovation, whether through a logical explanation or otherwise, effected monkeys in other parts of the world.

So, whatever you believe, I just wanted to share this thought in case it serves as a source of inspiration for you as well.

Clean Bathroom Theory

I’ve had this theory for awhile that I call the Clean Bathroom Theory.  Silly, right?

But, have you ever visited a dirty public restroom? Toilet paper on the floor, messy toilet seats, wet counters, paper towels that seemed to have missed their target. I shamelessly admit that I become a little more careless in bathrooms like these. If a scrap of that one-ply toilet paper should float to the floor as I attempt to yank it out of the dispenser, I may just leave it there. It’s already a disaster in there, right? What does that one scrap of paper matter?

On the other hand, when I visit a virtually spotless bathroom, I do my best to keep it that way. Uncharacteristically, I find myself wiping down the counter and sink after I’ve used them. I do a double-check to make sure everything looks great before I exit.

I think this is also illustrated so well in a study my friend recently heard about. With two people asking for money on the street, many passersby were more likely to give money to the gentleman dressed in a suit and tie who looked just recently down on his luck, rather than the gentleman in tattered clothes, who looked like he had been on the streets for quite some time. How curious. Perhaps people felt the tatter-clothed man was a “hopeless” case and the suit-and-tie man might just be okay again with that extra $5 in hand. Perhaps some people could more easily see a bit of themselves in the suit man and therefore felt more sympathetic towards him. Whatever the reason, I find it fascinating and saddening that the man who probably could have used even more help was more often ignored.

I think the “clean/dirty bathroom theory” carries over into so many parts of our lives. People in debt may think, “I’m already so far over my head, what does this one extra credit card purchase matter?” Students who have been labeled as “troublemakers” might see no reason why taking part in another trouble-making “incident” will make any difference at this point. When people hear about the toxins in their food or household products, they might just figure it’s a hopeless case to try to change things. And when people hear about the “sad state” of the environment, they seem to care even less. What does that extra styrofoam cup or extra car on the road matter, if everything is already so dismal?

Ugh! I find this attitude so frustrating and yet I can completely relate. It’s easy to do our parts when it seems like everything is almost there. It’s fun to donate to a cause when the thermometer poster is almost at the goal.  The tough part is when you’re looking at an enormous, almost impossible-looking mountain before you and really recognizing that each step gets you closer to where you want to be.

What I need to remember is that whether the bathroom is clean or dirty, whether the state of the environment is great or not, my actions and non-actions really DO make a difference. 

How can we get people listening to the seriousness of our sweet planet’s situation, while not overwhelming them into a state of apathy?

Small Actions, Big Difference

So, I love sharing upcycling ideas or reducing inspiration.  It’s always been a passion of mine, and I feel like our world needs a major shift this way…and soon.  But, I know what some of you may be thinking, because I am wondering the same things.  Are we really going to heal this planet by making gift tags out of cereal boxes or fixing broken zippers on our clothes??

But, when I stop and really think about it in my heart, I really DO believe these actions matter.  When we start treating our planet’s resources with respect and being more aware of our choices, we start to create change in our world.  So, by making gifts at home or upcycling our products or mending our clothes, we start to become more aware of the stuff in our lives—where it comes from, where it’s going, how to make the most of it.  And when we make these little projects and carry them around or have them in our homes or gift them to others, we have these subtle reminders everyday.  And it starts to change the way we think and the way we act and the way we vote.  The companies we choose to support or not to support.  Organizations we choose to donate to.  The essays and articles and videos we make to increase awareness.  All of these things DO matter. 

So, yes, we need HUGE changes in our world’s policies and standards.  Companies need to keep shifting in the direction of conscious and fair practices.  But, this is the job of many people in positions many of us don’t hold.  So, the best WE can do is to start with these small changes.  And just trust that by starting small, we will continue to make positive change in our world.

Gratitude, Not Guilt

When I write these posts and sometimes talk about the different processes a product must go through to get to us, I’m doing a lot of educated guessing. I actually think it would be awesome to have a show or a book that really took an audience on the actual journey–the entire journey– that a product goes through to get to a consumer. So many mind-numbing shows out there; let’s start creating and demanding ones that add value to our world.

I think something that shows a product’s journey from start to finish (and even its afterlife) would be a priceless addition to a child’s library or a mandatory school program, but also extremely important for the public at large.

Unfortunately, I often carry a feeling of guilt when I think of all a product has gone through. I think of the travel pollution and the natural resources used and the factory pollution into our air or waterways. I cringe when I see boxes piled on doorsteps or walk into a big box store, as I think of the negative impact all these products have had on our environment.  I know I’m in the minority on this, but I do seriously carry a load of guilt whenever I buy or receive something. 

BUT, I think a far better approach, really, for whatever side a person is on—feeling this tremendous guilt or not thinking about it at all–is for us to look at all of what products go through to get to us and use that as a way of gaining a greater appreciation for them. When we can really value all that something went through to be made and assembled and transported, then we can feel a connectedness and a gratitude we might not otherwise know. And only then, will we really be aware of its value.

Instead of saying things like, “Well, it didn’t cost much, so it doesn’t matter if it breaks.” or “I couldn’t find the one I had, so I bought another one.” or “A newer model came out, so this one isn’t good anymore.” Hopefully, we can instead know the true cost and true value of each product. We will appreciate what we have. Buy higher quality items from companies with fair and good manufacturing practices–Demand that, in fact.  Mend and fix broken items, instead of throwing them out. Share with our friends and neighbors, so we’re not each buying our own high-ticket items that sit unused for most of the year. Gaining appreciation for our food and products is one of the keys to making a big difference in helping our world.

By simply becoming more aware of our products’ journeys, we will start building this appreciation and changing our habits. Your actions can and will make a difference!