Theories on the ‘Surprise’ Child in Bluey

Spoilers!

Imagine our *surprise* when not only did we get a Bluey episode beyond the 28-minute ‘The Sign,’ but we also got a peek into the future of the Heelers!  (And possibly a peek into the future direction of the show?)

I knew adults like discussing their Bluey theories, but it wasn’t until I hopped online after this one that I realized just how invested the Bluey audience truly is.  Wow…  Uh, wow.

I think the biggest point I’d like to stress in the world of these Bluey theories (or ones of any book, movie, TV show, art, music lyric, etc) is that I love when a creator includes enough to give their audience meaning without giving a definitive answer or explanation.  And whatever thought or feeling or theory resonates with someone and gives them connection and meaning – that’s what matters.  To me, that’s true art.

If the Bluey audience wants it to just be a fun kids’ show – great.  If they want to fully dive into a complex analysis of each moment or close-up of the show – great.  The important dichotomy to remember is not only are these just theories, but they are also sometimes deeply meaningful to people.  The amount of self-righteousness and put-downs was eye-opening, for sure.  (I guess I haven’t spent a lot of time on forums…).  But, yes, like so many out there, I have my own thoughts on this final 4-second flash of a giggling child at the end of Bluey’s ‘Surprise’ episode.  So, with no podcast, YouTube, or forum desires, I’ll share them here – to my 10s of readers.

Theory #1 – (The one I least agree with, but the one that seems to be sending waves through the Internet)
The kid outside the door is Bluey’s.

Mackenzie’s or Jean Luc’s?  People went so wild guessing the father of this child, that it didn’t seem like much thought was actually given to the mother.  Again, just my opinion here, but I really don’t think this is Bluey’s kid.  But here are some arguments for and against:

Supporting this theory:
Bluey begins the episode by asking what it’s like to have kids.
-It’s the central question and it’s raised by Bluey, so I can see the line of reasoning – sort of (see ‘against’ thoughts)

Bluey is the one ringing the doorbell.
-Bluey is outside and just arriving and the kid is outside.

Bluey has been playing with the blaster and with Bandit during the episode, and we see a similar mischievous quality in the kid outside.

One person claimed, so I’ll put it here, that the ‘surprise’ was that Bluey didn’t seem likely to be the one to have kids and Bingo did, but it’s the reverse – surprise!

Ok, against this theory:
Bluey gets to see what it’s like to have kids during the episode, and from what I know about Bluey, it doesn’t seem likely that seeing her dad tumble to the floor, grasping at children, curled into the fetal position while being shot at would be a selling point on the whole parenting gig.

Bluey arrives unexpectedly (surprise!), but Chilli doesn’t ask Bluey about the whereabouts of a grandchild?
-I could see Chilli going along with a grandchild sneakily waiting for Bandit, for sure, but Chilli is genuinely surprised to see Bluey.  And this show has never shied away from little *wink* *wink* moments or ways of talking, which would probably have been the case.  I bet she’d want to at least get in a little hug or wink with her grandbaby.

Although Bluey is older, and people can have babies at different times of course, there is no evidence that Bluey is at a stage in life where she’d be having kids.
-The moving photos on the wall show a photo of Bluey’s graduation (from high school?)  My guess is that Bluey, the college student, is just swinging by to say Hello.

*Also, may I just add – As much as it’s cute to think about childhood friends having a future romance, I also think there’s too much emphasis on pairing kids up for their futures.  Let kids be friends without that added baggage.  It also makes many assumptions about gender and orientations before letting kids figure this all out on their own.  (And, I think this kid looks all heeler anyway.)

Theory #2 – (The one I was leaning towards in the beginning but have since changed my mind about…)
The kid outside the door is Bingo’s.

Supporting this theory:
Bingo is the one nurturing babies during the episode.
-We see throughout the whole episode that Bingo is the one who is caring for babies.  This is her focus and how she plays.

Bingo is already there.
-Whether Bingo lives at home or is also visiting, it would make sense that her kid would be there too.

Against this theory:
Chilli specifically tells Bluey where Bingo is but doesn’t mention Bluey’s niece?/nephew?

Bingo is out back.  I think she’s a teenager and hasn’t left home.
-I still think we’re at an earlier stage of “grown-up” Bluey and Bingo than people are theorizing.  Not that this doesn’t mean either could have a child, but I really think Bluey is a college kid popping in for a surprise visit.

In the rotating photos on the wall, Bingo looks like she’s on an adventure on Easter Island.
-Could have been at a different point in life, but doesn’t seem like she’s in mamahood stage.

Theory #3 – (Far-fetched, perhaps? but the one I’m gravitating towards the most)
The kid outside the door is Bluey and Bingo’s sibling!

Sounds a bit crazy, but here goes.  And, yes, I was ‘looking’ for moments to support this.

Supporting this theory:
Bluey surprises her dad during their play by popping out of the beanbag!
-Far-fetched perhaps, but felt very much like a surprise birth.  If fans are going to see the balloon-popping moment as a miscarriage, I don’t think this is that different.

Bandit keeps getting handed more and more ‘babies.’

At one point, Bandit brings 2 babies back to Bingo, and she points out he forgot one.  (On the beanbag! -see above)

While Bandit is falling through the air in the kitchen and Chilli is pointing out that THAT is what parenthood is like, Bandit is carrying 3 babies.

When Bandit is outside talking to one of the ‘babies’ about its siblings, Bluey connects to that and comes out of hiding.
-Bluey full-on says, “I’m her sister!”  (If this kid really is Bandit and Chilli’s 3rd kid, the answer is right there in the script!)

A ‘caboose’ baby would be quite a ‘surprise’ baby for Bandit and Chilli!

The long dog shown in the front hall right before the last scene is a similar coloring to the dog waiting outside.
-Foreshadow of a new main character??

*Since the 3rd baby forgotten by Bandit is named Copernicus (whose theory states that the planets rotate the sun) could it be a son??)

Against this theory:
While we don’t see all the rotating photos on the wall, there would probably be some of the new kid, right?

Even if Bluey had seen her sibling hiding outside, Chilli wouldn’t have known this and would have mentioned, ‘Bingo is out back and (your other sibling) is around here somewhere.’

My kids pointed out that the house looks too neat to have a child living there.
-But perhaps with only one young one and a teen, things are easier to keep tidy?

Bandit and Chilli would be older parents.
-If this scene takes place when Bluey is in college and Bingo hasn’t left home, it’s maybe 12 years into the future?  The kid is maybe 4 or 5?  Bandit and Chilli were supposed to be in their early 40s during the show’s regular timeline?  So, definitely not impossible, but this would be a late 40s pregnancy.

Chilli has glasses in the photo of Bluey’s graduation but different ones in the scene.

Theories #4,5,6, etc.
Perhaps the kid outside is someone else’s entirely.

-One of the cousins’ kids?
-A neighbor kid?
-Another of Brandy’s kids?
and on and on

The child does look VERY related to the family though.

My biggest guessing game is wondering whether this is the new direction of the show.  Will we be seeing Bandit and Chilli as they parent teens/young adults?  That would be interesting, but definitely not give the audience the same fun and make-believe elements.  Obviously, the new kid would provide a lot of that too, but would that be too risky for the fan-base?  Would we then see a lot of flashback episodes of different stages of childhood and parenting?  Are the voice actors playing Bluey, Bingo, and friends ‘aging out?’

Time will tell!  I’m almost positive my theories will change as a rewatch this and other episodes, but it was sure fun to search for clues to support or discount different guesses!

 

Other thoughts:
I do like that Bandit is straddling two very different parenting games in the episode – that of calm, gentle caretaker and that of fun, energetic, playful parent.  Interesting.

Ok, maybe those are gray hairs on Bluey and this is farther along than I’ve been trying to argue for?

 

 

Holiday Movies – My Favorites

I never really had many “must-see”s on my holiday viewing lists before now, but these last couple years I’ve loved having a go-to list for the month of December.  I say in the post title these are ‘favorites,’ which is quite a generous term for many of these.  But these are movies I do love to indulge in around the holidays.  Some quick Internet searches of popular holiday movies, and I see that not many of mine match up with most lists (figures), but here are some of the ones of some I really enjoy:

Arthur Christmas (2011)

This one is definitely at the top of the list.  I’m always surprised how few people have heard of this movie.  When people hear its name and that it’s animated, they usually assume it’s the aardvark book character named Arthur, but it definitely is not.  This is one of my favorite Christmas movies ever, if not THE favorite.  Arthur Christmas, son of the current Santa Claus, loves Christmas.  He loves the magic of it, he adores his dad, and he answers children’s letters from all over the world. But everyone, including Arthur, knows that when his dad eventually retires, Arthur’s brother, Steve, will be the one taking over the role.  Steve has Christmas down to a science.  He treats Christmas Eve like a top secret mission, complete with camouflaged troops of elves, fancy communication gadgets, and precise calculations.  But when one present is found undelivered after the Christmas Eve gifts have been distributed, Steve sees this as simply a small margin of error, whereas Arthur can’t bear to think of a child without a present from Santa on Christmas morning.  Arthur joins forces with his granddad and a feisty elf and faces his many fears in order to deliver this one missed gift.

This movie is entertaining and heart-warming, and I love it every time I see it.  I did wait to show it to our oldest until we’d had a certain conversation, only because I had always held such a magical idea of Santa’s village and a workshop of tinkering elves as a child, and this movie definitely turns that on its head with the mission talk and communications. –In a completely clever and hilarious way, of course, but I wanted to hold that magic for my kids.  The idea of the Clauses all being white and British has got its limitations, but there is really so much to love about this extremely well-done, Christmas movie.  It tops the charts for me, and I really think it deserves much more of a place in people’s Christmas movie lists.

 

The Grinch (2018)

I seriously love this version of The Grinch, and it’s one of the only movies that I feel fine with both kids watching, unedited.  I almost, almost gave up on this one when the first sort of loud, beatbox-y (I don’t know what kind of music this is called, honestly) song came on just a couple minutes into the opening.  I’m so glad I didn’t let that deter me.  This is one of the sweetest, funniest movies ever.  It’s a go-to in our house all year, but especially near Christmas.  One of the very few actual family-friendly movies that we all enjoy.  The Grinch in this is still grinch-y, but we also see the hints of sweetness to him before his heart grows three sizes, and it makes it all flow so beautifully.  I love this Grinch so much.

 

Spirited! (2022)

A new one!  A musical (which I do love), but one that pokes fun at musicals.  Will Ferrel and Ryan Reynolds are fantastic, and I love this twist on A Christmas Carol.  I’ve only just seen it, but it’s already on my annual must-see Christmas list. (Definitely an adult movie though)

 

Shaun the Sheep: The Flight Before Christmas (2021)

I know not all adults enjoy kid shows, but I adore Shaun the Sheep.  And while I haven’t seen this particular one nearly as many times as my kids, I always love watching this or other Shauns.

 

How to Train Your Dragon: Gift of the Night Fury (2019), Homecoming(2011), and even the Snoggletog Log

I love the HtTYD movies!  But the scarier bits have prevented me from sharing them with my kids just yet, so I was thrilled to find these holiday shorts.  I always confuse which plot is which on these, but they have my stamp-of-approval for unedited watching and they’re just so great.  Each of the shorts is 22 minutes, and even though I’m not always a fan of the background fireplace-on-TV thing, the Snoggletog Log is super cute.

 

I Hate Christmas (2022 and 2023)

Definitely R-rated.  (This Netflix mini-series has two seasons now!)  It’s based in Venice; you can watch it dubbed or with subtitles.  (I chose dubbed)  Such a fun watch about a young woman who is frustrated by outside pressure from family and friends to have a boyfriend and be on the road to marriage.  A kick-back-in-your-slippers-sort-of-watch, and I totally binge the whole thing every time, staying up way too late.

 

Zoey’s Extraordinary Christmas (2021)

I had Zoey’s Extraordinary Playlist on my show queue for so long without ever watching it.  It wasn’t until I noticed and wanted to watch this Christmas special that I realized it would be helpful to have the background knowledge of the show first  (which I watched and binged and totally loved).  And while I didn’t make it through the series and onto this one exactly in time for Christmas day itself, I still got to it in the window of Christmas.  And, of course, it was great.

 

Love Hard (2021)

I love this Netflix movie.  It is so flippin funny and has some truly great lines.  Definitely on our annual Christmas watch list, but enjoyable throughout the year as well!  (Teen and up)

 

Dash and Lily (2020)

More of a mini-series, rather than a movie, but I really like this one!  (A teen-and-up watch)  Dash and Lily are teens in NYC who haven’t actually met but share thoughts and dares back and forth in a notebook they hide for each other throughout the city.  Spoiler: Sadly, I did love Dash and Lily apart more than when they actually get together, but, ah well.

 

A Christmas Story Christmas (2022)

Another new one!  I had no idea this was coming.  I had, of course, seen the original as a kid.  It terrified me, especially the bit with Santa.  So, even though I’d watch the reruns of it on TBS when it was on, I never really sought it out since then.  But, I really loved the take on this one.  Super sweet, and so many of the outfits and decorations and details of this 70s setting took me back to my childhood.  (There was only one scene that was a little too unrealistic for my liking – almost every one of those sledders would be seriously injured or dead.). (Although some would show this to their kids, I would consider it a teen-and-up movie.)

 

A Christmas to Remember (2016)

I only just saw my first Hallmark movie a few weeks ago, when I noticed there were some on our library’s Hoopla channel.  This one has Mira Sorvino in it, so I figured, Academy Award winner… couldn’t be all that bad.  Despite some things you just have to accept as you go, I thought it was super sweet.  Again, a cozy-up, mama-by-herself movie.

 

12 Dates of Christmas (2011)

This one is definitely an indulgence – one of those, I’ve-got-the-TV-to-myself-and-my-bunny-slippers-and-popcorn kinda movies, but I dig it.  I almost gave up on it with the opening song originally, but I’m glad I hung in.  Just for fun, but cute.

Other movies to mention: 

<Not that any of these rank differently, I just don’t personally watch them during the holidays, even though they are holiday movies.>

While You Were Sleeping (1995)

One of my favorites from my teen and young adult days!  This one is very much set at the holidays, but, again, I just tend to watch it at random times during the year.

Holiday in the Wild (2019)

Helping elephants in Africa?  Yes, please.  This is such a chill, sweet movie, and it helps gain awareness around elephant conservation.

The Holiday (2006)

Can I please live in Kate Winslet’s character’s little English cottage for the holidays?

This Changes Everything

This Changes Everything (2019)

During our month with Netflix, I’ve tried to be more focused about watching things from our list.  I came across This Changes Everything and thought I’d just preview it for a few minutes to get a feel for it and then move on to something else for the evening.  Well, an hour and a half later…

I really liked this film and think it is such an important one for people to see.  This documentary discusses the underrepresentation and inequality faced by women in Hollywood.  I think it’s important to note though, that the focus is on women.  The stats, the interviews, the stories are about women in Hollywood.  Looking at the low percentages of women writers or directors or female leads, I can only imagine how much smaller (to non-existent) that number is for people of color, transgender people, non-binary people, and so many more.  And while this discrimination is obviously equally important to explore, This Changes Everything‘s focus is women.  There were many criticisms I read about this in reviews, but I personally think it was important for the documentary to keep a focus.  It would be like saying this film should have explored discrimination faced by women in all fields.  The topic is women in Hollywood.  Ok, moving on.

This Changes Everything was a big wake-up call for me.  Even as it began, I seriously thought, ‘Oh, well, maybe this used to be the case, but certainly not now.’  But as more and more women shared their stories and statistics were given, I was shocked.  I guess I didn’t fully realize things like why a big deal was made of Gerwig’s Little Women being directed, written, and produced by women.  I don’t tend to watch a ton of movies and I can be a bit particular in what I choose to spend my time watching, so I’m not always ‘in the know.’  But, I think these low numbers would probably surprise most everyone.  It’s interesting because I feel like the book world has made huge strides recently in representation.  I can find everything from picture books to YA to adult about so many people’s stories.  But, oddly, in the ‘open-minded’ Hollywood, this isn’t the case.  And, as much as I far prefer and adore books, let’s be realistic – The average person is way more likely to experience story on the screen than in a book.

I can understand and appreciate that big change doesn’t happen overnight.  So, seeing responses like these in this link of Hollywood women speaking up might seem awesome, but looong overdue.  But I get it.  It’s a process.  Still, I was very surprised by the inequality that’s been happening in Hollywood this long.  And when audiences continue to hear or see a story from a white, male perspective then that is what we think is the norm.  I really loved Shannon Hale’s post about Do Boys Only Get to Read Half the Books? but it seems that female authors get more opportunities to storytell than females in Hollywood.  It was interesting to think of that from the TV/movie perspective where the women’s perspective isn’t as readily an option.  I heard several times in the documentary that studios weren’t sure if they were willing to risk telling a woman’s story for fear of losing half their audience.  Seriously?  So, much like Hale talks about, women are just expected to watch a male’s view, but men can’t do the same for women?  (Or seriously, like I said, fill in the blank of any minority group.). Do we think so little of men?

And yet, another huge issue of (certain) men being at the helm of these productions has been the gross sexism and appalling behavior that women have had to deal with.  Isn’t it fortunate for this male-centric bubble that the young female actors they most desperately want for these parts are also the ones trying so hard to navigate this new show-business world and become a success that they are more likely to put up with such bull crap?  I loved one quote from the documentary – “Progress will happen when men stand.  It’s the chivalry of the 21st century.”  Although I don’t know much about FX, I loved seeing the male head of this channel really take it to heart that women and minorities were being so under-represented on the network.  He did something about it.  And, when big change and lots of change needs to happen, we really do need the help and support of people ‘on the inside.’  Much like the groups of men in the early 19th century whose votes would decide the fate of women’s suffrage.  And to create change, we also need women to come together in community.  So many of these male-centric stories have shown women pitted against one another in competition and that has influenced our culture.  Even interviews will try to perpetuate this and keep women separate.  We don’t all need to be BFFs, but women need to support each other and stand up for one another.  Divided, alone, and silent is when we fall.  We are stronger together.

And is this gender imbalance in production the same reason our cartoons have been so lopsided for so many years?  Makes sense, I guess, if men are the ones writing and producing them.  I remember when I was teaching elementary school, I used to do an exercise where I had the students think of a male cartoon character.  Preferably a human-looking one for the sake of the exercise.  What did he look like?  What was he wearing?  What were his hobbies?  What did he spend his time talking about?  And then, I asked them to do the same with a female character.  Now, I know things have changed since I did this.  I know they have.  But, is it as balanced now as I’m assuming?  At the time I was doing this with students, Tinker Bell had a huge comeback.  This jealous, mean fairy from 1950s Peter Pan who wears very little clothing and spends a good amount of time pouting or playing mean tricks on the only other female? Yeah, her.  (Link that is hilarious but rated-R) That is not a role model for young girls or an appropriate view of the female for any audience members.  Characters like Tinker Bell are one of the reasons my children have not seen any of the classic Disney films.  And, actually, it was the imbalance of females in cartoon movies that led Geena Davis (producer of This Changes Everything) to start her Institute on Gender in Media in the first place.

So, yes.  We’ve had too many moments of “This Changes Everything!” in this and so many other aspects of the way our world is.  But like that 100th monkey, I just have to believe that all these steps, whether small comebacks in an interview or large movements like MeToo and TimesUp, these will make a difference.  And even though Hollywood, and specifically women in Hollywood, is one, just one, piece of a much, much bigger problem, every change helps.  And whether we agree with it or not, people do look to movies, TV, and celebrities as guides from a young age and into adulthood.  Seeing women’s stories, hearing women stand up for themselves, watching women finally be recognized for their talents and hard work, and not just the dresses they wear to the awards shows, these things all make a difference in how we all view ourselves and those in our lives.  These people in Hollywood – actors, directors, writers, producers, interviewers, critics – they have great power and responsibility to create change.

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Best. Show. Ever!

Trying on AppleTV is by far one of my favorite shows of all time.  The show follows couple, Nikki and Jason, on their parenting journey.  After finding out they won’t be able to get pregnant, the couple pursues the adoption path.  Trying is full of reality, humor, and heart.  Everything about the show comes together so beautifully—the wonderful scripts, the perfect casting, the seamless music, the locations, the direction.  I’m beyond grateful for everyone who has been involved in making this heartwarming, beautiful show.  

I have loved joining, not only Nikki and Jason on their parenting journey, but also all the other characters.  Screenwriter/creator, Andy Wolton has an incredible ability to write all the characters of this show so well.  He’s given the characters depth and humor in a way that makes them all so human.  As much as I adore Nikki and Jason and their amazing chemistry, I can’t think of one character who wasn’t given a truly great story of their own in Trying

Watch this show.  Or don’t.  But it rocks.  And it’s one of the best things I’ve seen on television.

 

(Trying just wrapped up its 3rd season on AppleTV.  Will it be the last?  You know, I would take more if it came, but, as much as I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this show, I feel like Season 3 wrapped up the story quite wonderfully.)

Update:  SEASON 4!!  AHHHHH!